Selfless: The New Taboo

I really shouldn't watch the news anymore. I never did until I started working evening hours for a lady who always has the TV on. It's less like news and more like pop culture drama, political drama, gay rights drama, and more drama! The other night it was be-yourself-love-yourself drama. And it made me sick to my stomach.

A reporter was interviewing a former stay-at-home mom named Talia who had left her husband, abandoned her three kids, and moved across the country, completely changing her lifestyle. Her reasons for doing so didn't sound justifiable, even in this culture, prompting the reporter to ask,


"Do you love your children?"

"Absolutely. More than anything."

"More than yourself?"

"Should a mother love her children more than herself?"


I. Was. Flabbergasted.

Should a mother love her children more than herself. Is she serious?? And yet, why should I be surprised by this selfish way of thinking, since this is exactly the reasoning thousands of moms have every day when they walk inside an abortion clinic.

The Bible gives us the opposite advice: "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves." (Phil 2:3)

And Jesus instructed (and Himself lived out) the ultimate definition of love. Not one promoting self, protecting self, insuring self is #1, or making self happy. Rather, "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends." (Jn. 15:13)

True love is self-less.

To answer Miss Talia's comeback question,

"Should a mother love her children more than herself?"

Yes. Or it's not really love.

Remembering the Cost

It used to be just like any other summer holiday, and like most Americans, we'd usually grill, maybe swim or take a bike ride, and enjoy our day off from work or school.

Originally called Decoration Day, a day to commemorate those lost in the Civil War, it was eventually changed to Memorial Day in 1967, to honor those lost in all of our wars.

It wasn't til 8 years ago that I really stopped to think what this "holiday" was really about. Only 11 days before the Memorial Day of that year, we learned that my cousin was shot and killed by a sniper in Iraq. He was standing atop his tank, tossing candy to some Iraqi children when the bullet hit him.

I was 15 and had never experienced a family loss, nor did I ever expect my extended family to be the ones to feel the effects of war firsthand. I caught a glimpse of what grieving families for centuries have endured when startled with the news that their soldier would never come home.

In the 237 years America has been a free country, it has cost us over 1,309,000 lives.

Let us not forget the lives, and the families, who sacrificed so we can live free.

"Unglued" Book Review

Lysa TerKeurst’s “Unglued Devotional” is great for busy moms who need a daily reminder of how to stay calm during chaos, and to praise the Lord instead of complaining to Him.

Although she does have a book out titled “Unglued: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Raw Emotions”, this is not a companion book, but a devotional that stands on its own. I have not read her book but still enjoyed the devotional.

There are “60 days of imperfect progress”, as the subtitle says, with each day being only two or three pages each, and since the book itself is only about 4x6, it doesn’t take much time to read, which I‘m sure is intentional.

Lysa seems very real and transparent, not ashamed to use her own life experiences and failures as the example of what not to do. I like that her focus is on Scripture, which she always turns to for wisdom. Personal advice or examples are nice, but without the gospel, every effort at doing the right thing or having the right attitude is just hypocritical. So she takes us to the Source of hope.

I would not consider this devotional theologically deep, or extremely thought-provoking, but I also realize I’m not a mother and so am not in the same season of life as the author is. However, I still enjoyed reading it each morning, and usually found a little gem to "take home" with me.

I received a copy of this book through Booksneeze.com in exchange for this honest review and was not compelled to give a positive review.

A Letter to the Editor

Reading the paper this morning made me mad.

I don't usually read the paper, and I usually am not that easily angered, so it was not the best start to my morning. The article I read was about the ACLU's lawsuit over the recent bill that passed in the Arkansas legislature which bans abortions after 12 weeks, the time when a heartbeat is first detected.

I don't understand people who lobby for death and murder and then call themselves advocates of "reproductive rights" and "family planning".

I don't understand people who go to great lengths to protect unborn wildlife, but go to even greater lengths to destroy unborn human life.

Most of the article was filled with quotes from the ACLU voice, with only a brief mention of the other view, that of protecting life. I was ready to whip out pen and paper and write a letter to the editor so he'd know this slanted report wasn't the only opinion out there.

Instead, I finished making my birds nest breakfast (a Pioneer Woman recipe--normally that'd be enough to perk me up!), and turned open my Bible to 2 Kings. It just so "happens" that chapter 19 was where I left off from yesterday, the story of Hezekiah seeking Isaiah's counsel about the Assyrian king's threats against Judah. I read to verse 14, looked at that article sitting across the table, then kept reading.

"Hezekiah received the letter from the hand of the messengers and read it; and Hezekiah went up to the house of the LORD and spread it before the LORD.
And Hezekiah prayed before the LORD and said: "O LORD, the God of Israel, enthroned above the cherubim, you are the God, you alone, of all the kingdoms of the earth; you have made heaven and earth.
Incline your ear, O LORD, and hear; open your eyes, O LORD, and see; and hear the words of Sennacherib, which he has sent to mock the living God.
...So now, O LORD our God, save us, please, from his hand, that all the kingdoms of the earth may know that you, O LORD, are God alone."
Then Isaiah the son of Amoz sent to Hezekiah, saying, "Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel: Your prayer to me about Sennacherib king of Assyria I have heard.
..."Whom have you mocked and reviled? Against whom have you raised your voice and lifted your eyes to the heights? Against the Holy One of Israel!" "

2 Kings 19:14-16, 19-20, 22

I was no longer angry. I was grieved, and reminded that prayer alone is the answer. A measly letter to the editor would do nothing. So I "spread my letter before the Lord" and lifted up my voice to the Author my faith.

"Incline your ear, O LORD...that all the kingdoms of the earth may know that you, O LORD, are God alone."

Set-Apart Girl Conference

Hello, everybody! Spring is almost here (can I get a hallelujah!) and that means we're just a few short months away from the Set-Apart Girl conference!

My plan is to host another simulcast event so that young ladies all over central Arkansas can participate again this year. Our group last year had such a wonderful time and were encouraged both with Leslie Ludy's message, as well as the fellowship we enjoyed with one another! I hope you can join us this year if you're in the area!

Here's the tentative details, so save the date!

June 7th & 8th, Friday Night & Saturday
Redeemer Community Church
Little Rock, Arkansas

Conference theme:
Consecration: Made Strong to be Poured Out 

You can follow this link to check out more details on the session topics and speakers.

If you're not familiar with Set-Apart Girl, I encourage you to read their March/April Online Magazine to spark your interest!

Registration is now open. The cost is $10 per person, which will help cover simulcast fees, and includes conference notes and two meals. Click here to register.

If you have any questions feel free to leave me a comment!

From Bad Attitude to Gratitude

I've been reading "A Chance To Die", a biography of Amy Carmichael by Elisabeth Elliot, and in it is a story of a struggle Amy overcame by claiming the truth of John 21:22, "Jesus said to him, 'If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!' "

In my own little way, I had a similar experience with this verse this week.

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I don't know about you, but I don't think I fully comprehend the implications of being solely focused on CHRIST. Alone. Period. No exceptions. Think of the Philippians 3 passage where Paul desires to truly KNOW Him, to "count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus [his] Lord".

Count everything as loss. For Christ.

That is a hard concept to grasp. I really don't think I get it. Because I have such a cushy, modernized, Americanized life, I see all the physical, material things that I have--and think I control--and then just add Jesus into that. Sadly, I have a feeling I'm not alone in this. How many are really singing these words if we're honest:

"My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and health insurance."

"Hallelujah! All I have is Christ--plus my bank account!"

"Glory I'm saved! Glory I'm saved! My credit card debts and my bills are all gone!"

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Sunday morning this same passage from John 21 was preached by my pastor, and it was amazing how I needed to hear those words, yet again. I'd allowed myself to get worked up about something that week and had a rotten attitude, which quickly led to grumbling, and venting to a few poor souls I dragged into it. But when you turn your tongue loose, it doesn't stop with one offense. Pretty soon I found myself complaining about other situations and issues non-related to my original frustration. It was an all-out pity party, and I wanted everyone invited!

Everyone, that is, except Jesus.

But He came anyway. And thankfully my heart wasn't so hardened as to ignore His gentle prick. I knew I was sinning, but I wasn't ready to surrender. So I told God before church that even though I wasn't ready, I would try to come with an open heart and deal with this once and for all.

I think God let my pastor in on the secret pact, because his sermon hit home!

"What is that to you?"

You don't have to know everything. Forget about everybody else. Stop trying to manage everything, know everything, critique everything.

 "YOU. Follow. Me."

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Once again, when confronted with God's Word, I realized what a petty thing I had turned into a massive ordeal. I had to let it go and I knew it. There is no point clinging to worthless idols.

Times like these make me think of a recorded message I once listened to of Elisabeth Elliot (we've come full circle with her!), and I can distinctly hear her voice saying, "Surrender your rights."

Surrender.

Just as I began to sink down in shame and think, "what must God think of me when He sees me like this?", the Pity-Party-Crasher said, "He sees Jesus! He sees a spotless Lamb, Perfect Righteousness!"

Thank you, Jesus!

The Conviction to Lead

 

So what am I doing reviewing a book about leadership by a seminary president? Well, when Bethany House publishers made this book available for review, I immediately thought of my church library, and how nice it would be for the men and pastors in my church to have access to this book. Not because they’re lacking in leadership skills, but because Albert Mohler is well-respected in my church, so his book would be appreciated.

Alright, so now for my review. Believe it or not, I actually enjoyed reading it. I think I value the work and responsibility that a leadership role bears more than ever before.

The book itself is well-written, recording a God-honoring way to excel in your field, whatever your role. As the title states, the main purpose of the book is understanding the importance of having a genuine, passionate purpose that you believe in in order to successfully lead. Without a message there’s no reason for a leader.
 

Chapter topics include:

Understanding worldviews
Becoming a thinker, teacher, communicator, reader, manager, speaker, writer
Importance of character and morals
Being a good steward
Leaving a legacy

At one point in the book, the author recommended never reading a book if it is just a waste of your time because it doesn’t apply to your needs…so I almost put the book down. But only almost.

Great book for leaders and aspiring leaders of any field!

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for this review.

Questions and Answers...and Awards

I'm not sure what the Liebster blog award is, but I've been nominated for it. Does anyone know what it is? Regardless, it involves answering and asking a series of questions, and because the rules are all about the number 11, I couldn't resist participating! I think I just decided what one of my questions will be...

Anyhow, thank you to my friend Lauren from her lovely blog Musings of a Flower Child for the nomination and list of questions.

The Rules:

1. Answer the 11 questions the blogger who nominated you asked you.

2. Give 11 random facts about yourself.

3. Nominate 11 bloggers with less than 200 followers.

4. Create 11 questions for the nominees to answers.

 

 

Lauren's Questions:

 

1. Have you ever been abroad?

Sadly, no. I have plans to, though. That is, if dreaming about it is considered planning.

 

2. What is one word you would use to describe yourself?

Easy going (is that two words?)

 

3. Do you sew?

Tolerably. I do sew, but I'm not sure if "yes" is really the correct answer to your question. I enjoy it and learn something new each time I'm ripping out a seam. :)

 

4. What is one of your favorite pastimes?

 Reading a good book with a soundtrack playing and sipping hot tea! Or taking a walk on a sunny day.

 

5. What is a favorite summer activity or tradition?

My family usually climbs Pinnacle Mountain at some point during the spring/summer. We don't go camping as often as we used to, but I'd still call it a favorite summer activity. 

 

6. Skirts or pants?

Skirts, dahling!

 

7. What is your favorite color to wear?

My favorite color is purple, but some reason I tend to wear a lot of black. Oh the joys of being a musician.

 

8. Are you reading anything right now?

Oh am I? You want the whole list? I used to only read one book at a time, but currently I am reading at least 9 books, including "A Chance to Die" by Elisabeth Elliot, "Fierce Woman" by Kimberly Wagner, and "Wives and Daughters" by Elizabeth Gaskell. 

 

9. Tea or coffee?

Tea. I like hot tea straight or with cream if it's black, but ice tea must be sweet!

 

10. What is your favorite classic film?

Chariots of Fire. That's probably because it was the last one I watched.

 

11. Describe your favorite outfit!

I'm not much of a clothes/fashion person, but I love dresses from the 40s. 

 

 

11 Random Facts  

1. I love hats.

2. I have a favorite number, and it's eleven.

3. I'm not a tomboy, but I love sports. I'm sure it comes from having 3 brothers.

4. I've lived in the same town my whole life.

5. For a quiet introvert, I surprisingly have a wild, adventurous side that sneaks sometimes.

6. I prefer listening to instrumental music rather than vocalists.

7. I do not like snakes. Especially near my garden.

8. This is actually not my primary blog, but what I like to call my "public" blog.

9. I just upgraded to a smart phone, and I think it's making me dumb.

10. I still journal with pen and paper, because I love to write and I'm old-fashioned.

11. I have been an aunt for 2 1/2 months and it's the best thing in the world!! 

I tag: 

My followers, or anyone who wants to participate, or:

 

Valerie at Savories of Life

Lissy Lou at The World is Round...And Other Thoughts

Kiri Liz at Lianne Taimenlore

Lexi at The Daily Owl

McKenzie at Pecan Pastures

Amy at Yet Another Period Drama Blog

My Questions for You:

1. Do you have a favorite number, and if so which one?

2. Regarding fiction, do you prefer reading the book or watching the film?

3. What's the first thing you think of each morning?

4. Why did you start blogging?

5. What is a family tradition of yours?

6. Name one place you'd like to visit.

7. Name one celebrity/author/hero (current or from history) you'd like meet.

8. What color is your room painted?

9. Can you whistle?

10. How many siblings do you have, and where are you in the birth order?

11. What time zone do you live in?

Thanks for playing along! I'd love to see your answers if you decide to participate. Hope you realize the honor of being awarded the Liebster Award. I know I do, ;)

Lord, I Give You This Day

I am intentional about what devotional I choose to start my morning with, and I found one that is definitely a keeper.

Kay Arthur has proved herself to be an inspiring author, and it is no wonder her book “Lord, I Give You This Day” is my devotional of choice right now. But more importantly, she has proven herself faithful and true to the Author of our faith, and boldly declares His Word to her readers.

This 366-day devotional is unique in that it doesn’t begin with a little verse at the top, and then use the rest of the page for Kay’s own words. It deliberately infuses Scripture into the day’s reading, using it as the sole point of the devotion. It is not about the author’s thoughts, or her life experiences, or her personal matters. It’s about God. It’s about His Word. And it’s about how we can better understand both and live out those truths.

The material for this book is adapted from her books from the “Lord” series, and is just one page a day, easily fitting into anyone’s time table.

This is a great choice to get you going each morning; to begin the day in full surrender to and awe of our Majestic God.

In exchange for this review, I received a copy of this book from Waterbrook Publishers from their Blogging for Books program. These opinions are my own, and I was not compelled to give a positive review.
 

You Meet All Types

Last night I attended the UALR men's basketball game. I never knew what a diverse crowd there could be at a college game! I started noticing it all and felt like my friend for people-watching instead of game-watching!

For one, there's the students who are there to have an excuse to jump and scream and dance like idiots. Oh, and possibly to enjoy a game, but probably to get out of homework, but I can't say that for sure since it's not like I walked up and interviewed them or anything.

And then a large majority are what I call the loyal fans. They're the ones (often retired men) who sit down front, are season ticket holders, and are dressed for church instead of a gym. They're very involved in the game, but certainly take the time to make a few trips to the concession stand, unlike...

The die-hard fan, who are way too caught up in the game to leave, unless it's half-time. They are easy to spot because they're either decked out in team colors, or standing up the whole game, mouth wide open. They think that their sole purpose for attending is to personally be responsible for making sure the refs makes the right calls, and more importantly letting them know when they don't.

Of course, we can't forget the mothers. They are there to watch their sons on the court, to swing their arms in the air in protest when they get fouled, and to stand up and cheer while clapping wildly when they make a basket. They by far can be the most enthusiastic of the crowd.

Now the reverse of that would be what I respectfully call the wealthy wife. Their husbands fall into the loyal fan category, or even the die-hard category, but they don't. You see, they're in a class all to themselves, and their attire goes beyond even that of the loyal fans! They're not interested in the game. They interested in sitting next to a friend discussing what their friend did that day, or where their friend got those cute shoes, or what their friend's neighbor's dog did to their friend's grandmother while visiting from Georgia for two weeks because she's doing some remodeling. Oh, is the game over already?

Last but not least, there's the family man. He's there with his wife and kids, or maybe for just a special father-son outing. He tries to catch some of the game, but it's largely interrupted with trips up and down the stairs, first for concessions, then for bathroom, then for more concessions, then for more, well, you get the idea. He--that is, the kids--do good to make it to half-time, where it's one final trip up those stairs.

And then there's me, but I'm pretty sure there wasn't another me in that area. Although I am a sports fans, this time I was there for the pep band more than the game. Oh yes, the pep band! Forget those enthusiastic mothers or dancing students, the pep band trumps all else when it comes to energy!

(You can watch my brothers play in the pep band: http://vimeo.com/60846828 )

Variations on a S'more in A Major Crisis

It's a cold, grave, dreary day.

You've just finished your sandwich in common time, and you want just a little something suite to top it off before getting back to work. Something impromptu.

You open the cabinet and spot a bag of marshmallows, and presto! You've got a solution! Now you're doing fine.

Click, click, click. The stove top is lit and you watch your white cube turn gold while slowly expanding and changing to goo. (Making a perfect marshmallow is just your forte!)

 

As you devour that glob of deliciousness, a brilliant plan is being orchestrated in your head. (Maybe this proves toasted marshmallows are good for the brain!)

Back to the cabinet you go in search of chocolate and graham crackers. But alas! There are none to be found! How cruel to have marshmallows but not chocolate or graham crackers!

You're in a major crisis, now!

But never fear, the sweet voice of a Ritz cracker begins singing to you. Then it's joined by the butterscotch chips in a melodious duet.

Now you've got a good Handel on things. (Hallelujah!)

 

Your little cadenza begins: Toast goes the marshmallow! Ooie gooie goes the butterscotch! Smash goes the crackers! (Gently, of course. It would be terrible if you Baroque it.) This is a the grande moment of a real masterpiece!

 

 

You take the first bite, and your heart skips a beat. It's so amazing, you eat it in halftime! Encore!

Soon others that are sharp enough catch on and join in perfect harmony. (This certainly changed the dynamics in the kitchen.) And of course, having it just once is never enough. It must be repeated!

You realize you've made a minor mistake in taking so much time on a simple dessert. But ahh, what a finale to an otherwise flat afternoon.

Grieving God's Way Book Review

I finished reading this over a month ago, so I guess it’s high time I write the book review!

I picked out this book, not because I’m dealing with grief or the loss of a loved one, but to be able to sympathize with and help friends who are. But I must say I was sadly disappointed in this book. There were definitely some good thoughts and things for me to be aware of when interacting with others who are grieving, but it was lacking a strong Biblical reference.

I do not know anything about the author, Margaret Brownley, at all and have never read any of her other books, so I’d like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but this did not come across to me as completely sound advice. I think she may have still been dealing with her own loss, so it seemed to excuse some odd behavior.

The book is divided in four parts: Healing the Grieving Body, Healing the Grieving Soul, Healing the Grieving Heart, and Healing the Grieving Spirit. The concept sounds good, but I didn’t always agree with the author’s opinions on certain things. For example, she quotes from the Bible, but I never got the feeling that she was using Scripture as her foundation, rather, she believed one thing and found a verse to back it up. Also,  in one example (pg 83) she described the forming of the Grand Canyon as having taken millions of years! I think that kind of turned me off and I had a hard time taking the rest of her book seriously.

I got the book intending to give it to a friend, but I do not recommend this book. At best you’d have to read it carefully and prayerfully to discern what‘s good advice. There were a few good pointers in the book, but overall I was very disappointed, especially since the title of the book made me think this would be a biblical way to cope with grief!



I received a copy of this book from Booksneeze.com in exchange for an honest review.

Friday Faves

Whoops! I've missed a Friday! Not to mention I've been absent in general around here. Here's a little something for today. A little off-track from my usual Friday Favorites, though. Just some thoughts.

Thankful -- I just realized today that the Carnival Triumph was the very same cruise ship that my sister Linda Beth and I were on for a Bible Study Cruise! So thankful that it was in February of 2010 and not 2013!


{As a slight digression, I can't believe the outrage of said cruise passengers and threats of suing, as if Carnival lured them onto their magnificent ship with the sole purpose of cutting off electricity and leaving them stranded for days in the Gulf! I realize it was a horrible situation, and it's possible Carnival could've handled things better (I really don't know the details), but c'mon, they're giving you a full refund plus some! They really couldn't help it any more than you could. Ok, I'm getting off my soap box now.}


Grateful -- Listen up folks: today I heard the President say something that I agree with! Mark that down in the record books! As Catherine Bingley would say, "I'm all astonishment!"

In reference to the Sandy Hook shooting, he said (and this is based on my memory and scribblings in front of the TV), "when a child shoots another child, there's a hole in that child that the government can't fill." Now, assuming "the hole" he's referring to is the emptiness in the shooter's soul and not the bullet hole in the child (who wrote his speech?), I give a hardy "amen"! The problem is, that's where any mutual agreement between me and the President ends.  He just admitted that gun control laws or education boosts or anything government related and controlled is not the solution, yet that continues to be his answer. Sorry, Mr. President, but only Christ can fill that hole, and I'm so grateful He filled mine!

Impressed -- I did pretty good this Valentine's day. I got three cards, a box of Ghiradelli chocolates, a Lindt dark chocolate bar, and a red rose----all without a guy! When/if one finally comes around, I'm either going to be blown away or utterly disappointed. Not sure which. =)

Blessed -- God just continues to be faithful and good, and I'm continuing to learn to trust Him instead of doubting! He is hearing my prayers for direction, and even better--or I should say more surprisingly--I'm listening to His answers and learning to obey! Big steps forward don't have to be hard when they're God-ordained. Remind me of that when I encounter the next bend in the road!

Friday Faves

To continue last week's favorites theme, "these are few of my favorite things"...


Friends

In just this week alone I've had an hour-plus phone chat with one sister, a movie/talk-all-evening visit with another sister, and a lovely lunch at Cracker Barrel with a friend. I considered making Cracker Barrel a category of its own, because I love that place though I rarely go there, but the friendship is definitely more important than the food. Except maybe for those biscuits. (ha!)


Fermented Tea

This is not what you think it is. =) Health foods came up in one of my conversations, and I was telling my friend of this fizzy, fermented drink called kombucha. I was first introduced to it by some friends who make it, and when I tried it I wasn't really sure how to describe it, except that it gives a kick! As I was explaining the health benefits and nutrients it has, my friend said I should just make my own and we could have some at the spa day that we spontaneously planned. I'm thinking it's much more likely for the spa day to happen than for this tea to happen--or should I say grow?--inside my house. =)


Fair Weather

Although it happens to be cold again today, we've had some amazing weather for January! But I'm excited to say that according to the forecast it's going to be back up in the 60s again next week! Now that's my kind of winter! I love my new coat and everything, but I much prefer weather where only a light jacket or long-sleeve shirt is necessary.


Fierce Women

This is another book I'm reading right now. It's written by a pastor's wife from Hot Springs, Kimberly Wagner, who is often featured on Revive Our Hearts radio and True Woman conferences, which is how I heard of her. Although this book would apply more to married women, I'm learning so much even now! I did see that there's a message at the end to single women, but unlike a certain friend of mine, I don't peek at the end of each book! =)


 Fire

Although I do love a roaring fire on a bitter cold day, this isn't the kind of fire I'm referring to. Nor am I speaking of Amazon's HD kindles. Think more along the lines of passion, energy, or purpose. This is what I'm desiring from God, and this is, I believe, what God is now igniting in me through the reading of His Word. I'm amazed (well, not really) how often I find myself in a rut, not really seeking God's will or His priorities, but merely doing things out of habit, or because that's the last word I got. But as I'm being reminded from my Bible Study class in Hebrews, there is no such thing as a stagnant believer. You're either progressing or digressing. So I'm praying for the fiery power of the Spirit to ignite in me the power to do what's right. To walk in faith. To live in love.

God is More than Enough

 

 Right after I read a book by the daughter, I read one by the father. Just like with Priscilla Shirer, I’ve never read anything of Tony Evan’s before, but I really enjoyed “God is More Than Enough”. This book is not just an overview of Psalm 23, but a down to earth, this-is-how-you-live-out-this-truth kind of look at the psalm.

Short and to the point, Evans begins by explaining why there isn’t a single thing you could ever need that this psalm doesn’t address, or in other words, that your Shepherd does not supply. Of course that brings about the question of who is your Shepherd, and why it’s important not to miss that part of the verse and skip to the second in, “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want.” (vs. 1).

In the chapters that follow, Evans briefly but concisely gives you biblical reasons why God is more than enough to meet your…
    spiritual needs
    directional needs
    emotional needs
    physical needs and
    eternal needs.

Just a few highlights I enjoyed from the book:

    “The most dependable thing you have going for you is not your family or your friends or you bank account or your life’s work. The best and the most consistent thing you have going for you is your God, and we see that even in His name. ‘I Am that I Am’, He says. There is constancy with God.”

    “Once you hit Monday, Sunday’s over. It’s ‘was’, not ‘is’. God wants a moment-by-moment, day-by-day relationship with each of us, not a once-a-week ‘refresher’.”

    “The reason so many of us cannot sincerely pray, ‘the Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want’, is that we’re still living self-service lives. We’re saying, ‘I’m going to pull it off.’…”

    “Oh, what a way to live, knowing with absolute certainty that His goodness and His loyal love will stick with me for the rest of my life!”

In exchange for this review, I received a free copy of this book through Waterbrook Multnomah's Blogging for Books program.

Friday Faves

What I've been enjoying: Sunsets

I'm not sure why I noticed the sunsets every day this week. Maybe because the days are getting longer, so the sun isn't already gone when I'm driving home. Or maybe because they've been dazzling and different every day, demanding my attention. Probably the latter.


What I've been reading: "Abortion" by R. C. Sproul

So, so good (I'm still in the middle of it). I got this as a free e-book, but I can't remember where I saw it advertised, and I doubt it'd still be available for free by now anyhow. (I found it! The kindle version is FREE on Amazon! Click on the side image to get yours.) Nevertheless, this is a great book that biblically and logically addresses the issue of abortion. It seems an appropriate time to read this after passing the 40 year mark of Roe v. Wade.


What I've been listening to: Once Upon a Romance


This is the best CD ever for relaxing, for piano enthusiasts, Disney lovers, or all of the above.  In other words, you. need. this. album. I heard one track playing inside a store last week and bought it on the spot! I've listened to it practically all day every day since then. It's lullaby-type piano arrangements of old Disney classics like "When You Wish Upon A Star", "Part of Your World", and "A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes".


What I've been wearing: A New Coat



I've been looking a while for a gray, winter coat, so it's exciting enough to actually find one you not just like, but love. BUT, when it's found for only six bucks, that's really something worth cheering for! Yay for clearance racks in Forever XXI!








What I've been doing: Sewing

Sewing aprons. Sewing paci clips. Sewing a quilt. Sewing valances (well, should be). Even sewing valentine cards. I'm really getting into this sewing thing. Now if I could just have a personal sewing machine oiler, I'd be set.

The World of Etsy

Because I've been working at selling some of my own creations on Etsy, I've done a little more browsing on there than I used to do. 

I officially made my first "Treasury List" (don't worry if you're lost--I only discovered it today!) and will include some here. But first are a few of my recent listings for sale.

"Love" pocket sleeve note card


Embroidered Flower Note Card


Embroidered Hearts Note Card
 
And now my favorites from other Etsy shops:
 

Piano Ceramic Tile, DPPhotography


Favorite Things, KruBooks


(This is definitely my nephew's future!)
Country Music Onsie, threewagons


Violin Necklace, rainuua

Book Review: Discerning the Voice of God

 

I have been absent from here too long. Between the recent holidays and a trip up north to see my brand new baby nephew, I haven't left myself much time for blogging. I've still been reading, just not writing any reviews, so I'd say it's time for a book review. So without further ado...








“Discerning the Voice of God: How to Recognize When God is Speaking” was a great book. I’ve heard author Priscilla Shirer speak, but had not read any of her books, and this one especially interested me. Being in a place in my life where I needed to seek the Lord for some answers, I benefited greatly from Shirer’s words of advice, given from within the context of Scripture.

The book itself is easy to read and includes lots of down-to-earth (and sometimes humorous) illustrations based on Shirer’s life experiences, or stories of her acquaintances. I found myself relating to her and wanting to really put into practice what she had to say, not because she said it, but because I recognized it as Truth. Her powerful message was wrapped in humility and love, and came just at the right time for me.

I would highly encourage believers to read this book to strengthen their knowledge of and relationship with God and His Word, so as to better discern His voice and to walk in His ways.

I received a copy of this book form Moody Publishing in exchange for this honest review.

Favorite Christmas Quotes

Along the lines of yesterday's post, here's some great Christmas quotes, although some are only vaguely related to Christmas. =)

"The only thing in the world more ridiculous than Christmas is falling in love!"

Ebenezer Scrooge, from "A Christmas Carol"

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"I'm not going to be a shepherd!"

Charlie, in "The Best Christmas Pageant Ever"
A favorite for obvious reasons.

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"Deck da haws wid boughs of hawwy, fah wah wah wah wah wah wah wah wah."

Chinese restaurant carolers, in "A Christmas Story"

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"If you can't learn to accept ANYTHING on faith, then you are doomed for a life dominated by doubt."

Kris Kringle, in "Miracle on 34th Street"

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"Is this the way government really works?"

Harmony, in "Ernest Saves Christmas"

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"Christmas won't be Christmas without any presents!"

Jo March, from "Little Women"

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"Guy, your face? What is it?"
"Oh, it's just this thing I keep on the front of my head. You know, a couple of eyes, ears, a nose."
"No, no, no, I mean what's the matter?"

Madge & Guy, from "Gifts for Madge & Guy"

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"This is Mary and I'm...Joseph."

Little boy, in "The Bells of St. Mary's"

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"I'm not gunna to make it til Christmas!" (pronounced "kriss-miss")

Joe, probably in Christmas 2007

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"And io, io, io..."

best lyrics ever, from "Ding Dong Merrily on High"

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"I wish it was Christmas or New Year's all the time. Wouldn't it be fun?"

Jo March, from "Little Women"

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"This is a very interesting situation!"

George Bailey, in "It's a Wonderful Life"

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 "The only blind person at Christmastime is he who has not Christmas in his heart."

Helen Keller

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"Seize the blazing yule before us!"

What it sounds like Aunt March is singing in "Little Women"

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"Walking around the Christmas tree like a big fat, big fat, big fat fat."

A. Nony Mous, from the S Household

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"I'm sorry mother, but you're perfectly wrong."

Susan Walker, in "Miracle on 34th Street"

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"I bet it's a warrant for my arrest. I'm going to jail, isn't it wonderful? Merry Christmas!"

George Bailey, in "It's a Wonderful Life"

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"And the angel said to them, 'Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.' "

The angel of the Lord, in the Gospel of Luke

Favorite Christmas Movies

Now, there's a lot of Christmas-themed films out there, and I certainly haven't seen them all (I've been told I need to see "Christmas Shoes"). Then there's some I have seen but will be noticeably absent from this list. Then there are some I have seen but have probably forgotten about, so remember to join the convo (that's Etsy talk for conversations) and comment on your own favorites! (By the way, these are in no particular order.)

"Miracle on 34th Street"

 

This may come as a surprise, but I actually like the newer ('94) version better. It may be because I've seen it a few times more than the '47 version. But I like how in the changed ending (spoiler alert) they use the example of our currency saying "In God We Trust" on it even though we can't see God, instead of the post office defense. I also like Richard Attenburough as Kris Kringle, and Mara Wilson is the cutest little Susan!

"The Best Christmas Pageant Ever"

Such a funny movie! And if you read the book, you'll find it's one of those rare occasions where the film actually follows the book nearly word for word! So in this case, why read the book when you can see Leroy, Ollie, Gladys, Claude, Imogene and Ralph wreak havoc in the Sunday School room in live action on the screen? =) Definitely a family favorite!

"Ernest Saves Christmas"

Speaking of family favorites, I can't believe this actually made the list, but if you're in my family, you know why. =) I'm pretty sure the only reason we ever watched it was because my aunt and cousin were extras in it in a scene early on in the film. Yep, you read that right. Still, that probably doesn't warrant it being on a favorite Christmas movies list, but traditions are traditions, and even stupid, ridiculous memories can be good ones. And you don't have to watch it just because we do. =)

"The Bells of St. Mary's"

I don't think this is actually a Christmas movie, but we usually watch it at Christmastime for whatever reason. It's a sweet story with a few cute and funny moments in it. I think we watch it to say we got our fill of Bing Crosby without watching those other "classics" that aren't so classic.

"Little Women"

As long as we've veered away from solely Christmas-only-themed films... I think this is a great movie with several Christmas scenes in it! Of course, I'll take any excuse to watch one of my favorite movies. It's oh so much better than any other adaptation of Alcott's novel, and does a decent job of sticking to the real story. And Christian Bale is Laurie, so of course I'm going to watch it! (Just kidding! I'm not one of those.) One of my favorite winter scenes is when they're delivering their Christmas dinner to the Hummels and spontaneously start belting out "Here We Come a-Wassailing"! I can relate to the impulse.

"It's a Wonderful Life"
 

You were probably wondering if this was going to show up. Well, wonder no longer! This has to be my all time favorite Christmas movie, and it probably ranks pretty high as my all time favorite of any genre!  It's such a great story: realistic yet classic; funny yet touching. Jimmy Stewart does a fabulous job being George Bailey, and you gotta love Henry Travers as Clarence, Angel 2nd Class. This movie never gets old and never fails to delight no matter how many times I watch it. It's a ringer! (pun intended)

Favorite Christmas Traditions

This first set is more generic Christmas traditions, i.e. everybody probably does them.


--Christmas lights. I love driving around at night to see them, and I even love putting them up. (Taking down, not so much.)

--The bell ringers. I suppose the dinga-lingin' could get to you after a while (I'd hate to be the ringer!), but there's something about stepping out of your car in the Kroger parking lot and hearing those Salvation Army bells for the first time that says, "it's Christmas".

--Gift giving. I won't hide the fact that I love both giving and receiving gifts. It's my love language, so naturally it comes, um, naturally for me to enjoy this aspect of Christmas.

--Christmas caroling! Who doesn't enjoy an excuse to sing as long and loud as you want with your friends?! Usually our church has a group that sings for the seniors, but I really love it when we actually walk up and down the roads, "caroling caroling out in the snow", only without the snow, of course. This is Arkansas.

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The following are some of my family's traditions; things that make the holidays feel special and homey.

--Listening to my Granddaddy read the Christmas story from Luke & Mark before opening gifts. He might be wearing a Santa hat, but he's reading gospel words, reminding us the reason we're all gathered.

--Getting creative with the ribbons and bows. And not on the packages. On people's heads.

--Watching the first half of "It's a Wonderful Life" on Christmas Eve and the second half on New Year's Eve. I'm not sure how this started. I think we were too little to stay up late, so we never made it through the whole thing. And then what better way to bring in the new year than with "Auld Lang Syne"?

--Hanging our stockings anywhere other than the mantle. Up until three years ago we didn't have a mantle anyhow, so the couch, the windows, or door frames were used. But now that we do have a mantle, we don't have room for them all, so we hang them up on the rails on the banister and then Christmas morning sit along the catwalk to pull out our surprise.

--Making pumpkin bread sometime around Christmas. I'm not sure why we think pumpkin bread is limited to the month of December, but that seems the only time it gets made in our kitchen, so we savor every bite.

You may ask, how did these traditions get started? I'll tell you...I don't know. But it's a tradition. And because of our traditions, every one of us knows who he is and what God expects him to do.

-Tevye